We have one. YAY!!
We talked about the mealtime issue last night and I think we came up with something that's going to work for us. We decided that we're going to put Hudson on a meal schedule and prepare the portions on Sunday so it'll be a no brainer for me during the day. I just follow the schedule and feed him according to it. It didn't take us long to portion everything out last night for the week so that's good news.
Breakfast was a success so far. Hopefully the rest of the day will follow.
WOOT WOOT
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Monday, September 27, 2010
Mealtimes
The time of the day I dread. Mealtimes are a HUGE source of stress for me and something needs to be figured out for all of our sakes. Hudson just isn't a good eater. Or at least I don't think he is. He excels at most everything else but eating is not his forte.
And I think that it is mostly because of me so I need to change what I'm doing, now.
Right now he's at an in between stage. He no longer wants to be fed or will eat purees, he wants to feed himself. Well fine but giving him a spoon to feed himself a puree or oatmeal or ... well, it just ends up in a huge disaster. Fine, no purees. But then what do I feed him? The poor kid can't live on Goldfish and cheese. He will sometimes eat cooked frozen peas and carrots, and I steamed and diced a sweet potato that he'll eat. But that certainly isn't a balanced diet.
I know most of his nutrition is coming from his formula anyways but he's soon to be 1 year and needs to be weaned off. I can't rely on the formula to do the job that I can't much longer so I need to figure something out. Especially when mealtime ends with one or both of us frustrated and sometimes crying and me with my blood pressure rising, counting down the hours I have until the next mealtime. I know he doesn't leave the highchair full but I don't feel like I should keep giving him a random assortment of things to try instead of a meal. Or is that what you do until he learns how to use a fork and spoon?
When should I stop trying to give him different things because he won't eat so he'll realize I'm not a short order cook? I mean I know that at 11 months old he doesn't know the difference but am I teaching him it's ok to be picky?
Who knows, maybe this is all okay and I'm over thinking it all but I need to know one way or another.
1/2 hour til the next meal, sigh.
And I think that it is mostly because of me so I need to change what I'm doing, now.
Right now he's at an in between stage. He no longer wants to be fed or will eat purees, he wants to feed himself. Well fine but giving him a spoon to feed himself a puree or oatmeal or ... well, it just ends up in a huge disaster. Fine, no purees. But then what do I feed him? The poor kid can't live on Goldfish and cheese. He will sometimes eat cooked frozen peas and carrots, and I steamed and diced a sweet potato that he'll eat. But that certainly isn't a balanced diet.
I know most of his nutrition is coming from his formula anyways but he's soon to be 1 year and needs to be weaned off. I can't rely on the formula to do the job that I can't much longer so I need to figure something out. Especially when mealtime ends with one or both of us frustrated and sometimes crying and me with my blood pressure rising, counting down the hours I have until the next mealtime. I know he doesn't leave the highchair full but I don't feel like I should keep giving him a random assortment of things to try instead of a meal. Or is that what you do until he learns how to use a fork and spoon?
When should I stop trying to give him different things because he won't eat so he'll realize I'm not a short order cook? I mean I know that at 11 months old he doesn't know the difference but am I teaching him it's ok to be picky?
Who knows, maybe this is all okay and I'm over thinking it all but I need to know one way or another.
1/2 hour til the next meal, sigh.
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Week in review
It's been a long week. All 3 of us were really sick with an assortment of fevers, sore throats, runny noses, diarrhea, congestion etc. Let me tell you: being sick yourself with a sick kid is horrible. The days were long and tiring and not being able to take any drugs to help just made things worse. I'm so glad that's over with.
Pregnancy symptoms have attacked in full force. They started at 6w2d with the nausea. Morning sickness and flu pukiness feel very different so I know that's not what I had. I even started taking diclectin in hopes to curb the MS but nope, it's returned. Mostly in the late afternoon/evenings is when the actual puking happens, the rest of the day I just feel sick to my stomach. I almost forgot how wonderfully awful being pregnant can be.
I also feel like I have a fog covering my head. I feel dazed and just not myself. Not to mention the sleepiness has kicked in so poor D, I'm headed off to bed at like 9pm. As horrible as it sounds, I'll just have to get used to feeling terrible until May because there's nothing I can do about it.
I cleaned out my closet (literally) and dresser and made room once again for the maternity wear. Upon review I noticed that most everything was geared toward summer and won't do for the winter months. So I went shopping and ordered a few things online and I *think* I won't need to buy anything else. Of course a dress for Christmas parties and such is in order but I'll worry about that later.
We told D's family this weekend. After supper I changed Hudson into his Big Bro t-shirt and D and I waited. We waited and waited. It took them FOREVER to read it and process what it said. I even tried to keep mentioning the shirt ('Is his shirt dirty grandma?') but FINALLY D's brother J said 'Big Bro, does that mean you're pregnant?". It took awhile to sink in but after everyone was excited at the news. I wanted to wait until after supper to make the announcement in case J & J had one of their own but she was drinking so it was all clear. I couldn't help but feel a bit guilty that we had such great news and they didn't have any. I mean, they've only been married for like 2 months but I know that kids are a huge priority for her especially and I wanted to make sure to be sensitive to that fact. I could tell it bothered her a bit so I did feel bad. I'm just hoping they will have news of their own soon.
My parents are on holidays and we won't see them for 2 more weeks so we will tell them then. It feels good to get it out in the open.
Pregnancy symptoms have attacked in full force. They started at 6w2d with the nausea. Morning sickness and flu pukiness feel very different so I know that's not what I had. I even started taking diclectin in hopes to curb the MS but nope, it's returned. Mostly in the late afternoon/evenings is when the actual puking happens, the rest of the day I just feel sick to my stomach. I almost forgot how wonderfully awful being pregnant can be.
I also feel like I have a fog covering my head. I feel dazed and just not myself. Not to mention the sleepiness has kicked in so poor D, I'm headed off to bed at like 9pm. As horrible as it sounds, I'll just have to get used to feeling terrible until May because there's nothing I can do about it.
I cleaned out my closet (literally) and dresser and made room once again for the maternity wear. Upon review I noticed that most everything was geared toward summer and won't do for the winter months. So I went shopping and ordered a few things online and I *think* I won't need to buy anything else. Of course a dress for Christmas parties and such is in order but I'll worry about that later.
We told D's family this weekend. After supper I changed Hudson into his Big Bro t-shirt and D and I waited. We waited and waited. It took them FOREVER to read it and process what it said. I even tried to keep mentioning the shirt ('Is his shirt dirty grandma?') but FINALLY D's brother J said 'Big Bro, does that mean you're pregnant?". It took awhile to sink in but after everyone was excited at the news. I wanted to wait until after supper to make the announcement in case J & J had one of their own but she was drinking so it was all clear. I couldn't help but feel a bit guilty that we had such great news and they didn't have any. I mean, they've only been married for like 2 months but I know that kids are a huge priority for her especially and I wanted to make sure to be sensitive to that fact. I could tell it bothered her a bit so I did feel bad. I'm just hoping they will have news of their own soon.
My parents are on holidays and we won't see them for 2 more weeks so we will tell them then. It feels good to get it out in the open.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
11 months
Dear Hudson,
Today, little H, you are 11 months old. Next milestone you will graduate to a toddler and like that, my baby will be gone. I'm trying to hold onto memories of you as a tiny baby but it's hard when I so look forward to what's ahead. So much will change in even a few months from now. You will be walking and talking and learning to mimic even more. In just a few months you will be a little person, more independent than ever. I hope you never forget and that I never fail to tell you how important and special you are to me. I love you little H. Please don't grow up too fast.
Love always,
Momma
Today, little H, you are 11 months old. Next milestone you will graduate to a toddler and like that, my baby will be gone. I'm trying to hold onto memories of you as a tiny baby but it's hard when I so look forward to what's ahead. So much will change in even a few months from now. You will be walking and talking and learning to mimic even more. In just a few months you will be a little person, more independent than ever. I hope you never forget and that I never fail to tell you how important and special you are to me. I love you little H. Please don't grow up too fast.
Love always,
Momma
Goodbye.
Dear Grandpa,
You were the only grandpa I knew, the only one that I called mine. I have many fond memories of us together from trying to make some money selling your old hats to staying up late and helping you roll your coins while you checked your lottery numbers. You loved your garden, your dogs, and you loved a good deal. I will miss the bear hugs you gave me, rubbing your belly to tease you, and the joy you expressed when you held Hudson. You won't be forgotten and I love you.
Goodbye.
You were the only grandpa I knew, the only one that I called mine. I have many fond memories of us together from trying to make some money selling your old hats to staying up late and helping you roll your coins while you checked your lottery numbers. You loved your garden, your dogs, and you loved a good deal. I will miss the bear hugs you gave me, rubbing your belly to tease you, and the joy you expressed when you held Hudson. You won't be forgotten and I love you.
Goodbye.
Sunday, September 12, 2010
6 weeks
Today marks 6 weeks. Last pregnancy this also marked the day in which I began puking my brains out for the next 20 weeks. So far, so good (knock on wood). So far my symptoms have just been a bit more hungry, not ravishing and if-i-don't-get-food-now-i-will-eat-your-face kind of hungry but my body knows when mealtime is and I best be sure not to miss one. I've also been peeing a lot more, like every hour or so. At night it's every 2 hours. Other than that, I get the occasional stitch kind of cramp in my ute when I'm trying to get comfortable in bed (I forgot about those).
We decided that it's probably not the most appropriate thing to tell my parents quite yet. With everything going on with the passing of my grandpa, it just doesn't seem right. I don't know when we'll tell them (or when we'll even see them next for that matter) but a 'hey, guess what' after a funeral doesn't seem tactful. We're still planning on telling D's family likely this weekend as his dad gets home tomorrow.
I'm not going to start any weekly surveys as of yet, not much is changed and to be honest-I don't really feel much different. I do feel like my gut is hanging out though but I'm not sure if I'm starting to show early because I started to show so early last time. This is the beginning of the awkward 'is she pregnant or has she just been eating too many doritos' phase. I forgot how much fun this phase was. I just hate being self conscious. Bleh.
We decided that it's probably not the most appropriate thing to tell my parents quite yet. With everything going on with the passing of my grandpa, it just doesn't seem right. I don't know when we'll tell them (or when we'll even see them next for that matter) but a 'hey, guess what' after a funeral doesn't seem tactful. We're still planning on telling D's family likely this weekend as his dad gets home tomorrow.
I'm not going to start any weekly surveys as of yet, not much is changed and to be honest-I don't really feel much different. I do feel like my gut is hanging out though but I'm not sure if I'm starting to show early because I started to show so early last time. This is the beginning of the awkward 'is she pregnant or has she just been eating too many doritos' phase. I forgot how much fun this phase was. I just hate being self conscious. Bleh.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
And the winner is...
Not us. He just sat there. He sat at the start line and looked around while I yelled his name trying to coax him with a soft drink. Sigh.
Oh well, there will be lots of time to cheer him on at other events. Oh my little Hudson.
Oh well, there will be lots of time to cheer him on at other events. Oh my little Hudson.
And we're back
Back from holidays and smacked in the face with reality.
First, the holiday was so amazing. We all had a blast. Got to visit with some old friends and got to relax which is what we wanted. Waking up at 4am to be at the airport makes for a long day. After the 2.5 hour flight we then had to get all our luggage, get Maddie (who did very well btw), and pick up the rental car. After a quick stop for breakfast we were off on our 3 hour road trip to our destination and a long nap was needed after that. Hudson did surprisingly well with his sleep, except for the first night where he was so extremely overtired that he couldn't sleep. Both mom and dad were exhausted too and patience was at a minimum that night. We made it through and as long as we made sure he got his naps in, all was good. The wedding was gorgeous. It was on a beach at a lake in the mountains. After the couple said their vows, they both jumped in the lake which was very them. I've known them for close to 10 years, D has known the groom longer. I'm just so glad we went and got to share the day with them.
After a few days we left and headed back to the city that we flew into so we could visit with D's family and sight-see. Hudson and his great grandma met for the first time as well as his uncle from the Philippines (and his partner). We had so much fun with them, I just wish we could have spent more time with them. We also met up with D's aunt and some cousins.
Our anniversary was the 9th and we celebrated 4 years of being married. I got a call early that morning that my grandpa had passed away. He was battling cancer and was sick for awhile but he peacefully passed with my mom and grandma there by his side. The funeral is Monday. I miss him and I hope that he knew he was loved. I'll write more about this after we get back on Monday.
The baby crawl is in T-2 hours so wish Hudson luck!
First, the holiday was so amazing. We all had a blast. Got to visit with some old friends and got to relax which is what we wanted. Waking up at 4am to be at the airport makes for a long day. After the 2.5 hour flight we then had to get all our luggage, get Maddie (who did very well btw), and pick up the rental car. After a quick stop for breakfast we were off on our 3 hour road trip to our destination and a long nap was needed after that. Hudson did surprisingly well with his sleep, except for the first night where he was so extremely overtired that he couldn't sleep. Both mom and dad were exhausted too and patience was at a minimum that night. We made it through and as long as we made sure he got his naps in, all was good. The wedding was gorgeous. It was on a beach at a lake in the mountains. After the couple said their vows, they both jumped in the lake which was very them. I've known them for close to 10 years, D has known the groom longer. I'm just so glad we went and got to share the day with them.
After a few days we left and headed back to the city that we flew into so we could visit with D's family and sight-see. Hudson and his great grandma met for the first time as well as his uncle from the Philippines (and his partner). We had so much fun with them, I just wish we could have spent more time with them. We also met up with D's aunt and some cousins.
Our anniversary was the 9th and we celebrated 4 years of being married. I got a call early that morning that my grandpa had passed away. He was battling cancer and was sick for awhile but he peacefully passed with my mom and grandma there by his side. The funeral is Monday. I miss him and I hope that he knew he was loved. I'll write more about this after we get back on Monday.
The baby crawl is in T-2 hours so wish Hudson luck!
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
ROAD TRIP!
3 more days and we're off on our first family vacation! Well we did go to Mexico in March but we went with my parents then. This is the first time it'll be just with us all (Maddie's coming too!) We are flying and renting a car instead of renting an RV, there's far too much stuff we need to bring that won't fit in my car for the 6 hour drive to go get the RV. So we're flying instead and saving about 1/2 the cost, YAY for that! We leave bright and early Saturday morning (we have to be at the airport at 5 or so) so hopefully no one is too grouchy, mom included! I can't wait, it'll be a nice week hanging out just us, some much needed family quality time.
The day after we get back we found out there is a baby crawling contest so we entered Hudson! We've been busy practicing but I think when the time comes he might get distracted by everyone else that's there. We'll have to find something to coax him down the lane with, lol. It's his first big race and we've already got a few people coming out to cheer the little guy on.
We also plan to tell everyone the exciting news when we get back from our vacation. I'll be 6 or 7 weeks but D's dad will be home from work then (he works out of the country for long periods of time) and I'm not sure how much longer I can keep the news in, lol! D's parents always have a get together when his dad comes home with all the family so we'll tell them then. I made a cute shirt for Hudson to wear, D thinks it'll take awhile for people to get it but I think they'll all get it right away. We'll also see my parents the weekend of the baby crawl so everyone will know in about 2 weeks!
The day after we get back we found out there is a baby crawling contest so we entered Hudson! We've been busy practicing but I think when the time comes he might get distracted by everyone else that's there. We'll have to find something to coax him down the lane with, lol. It's his first big race and we've already got a few people coming out to cheer the little guy on.
We also plan to tell everyone the exciting news when we get back from our vacation. I'll be 6 or 7 weeks but D's dad will be home from work then (he works out of the country for long periods of time) and I'm not sure how much longer I can keep the news in, lol! D's parents always have a get together when his dad comes home with all the family so we'll tell them then. I made a cute shirt for Hudson to wear, D thinks it'll take awhile for people to get it but I think they'll all get it right away. We'll also see my parents the weekend of the baby crawl so everyone will know in about 2 weeks!
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